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Lennox(Lenny) Roberts-Flanders

Therapist

Lennox(Lenny) Roberts-Flanders

BACP

United Kingdom · 6+ years of experience

Supportive therapist for stress and life change

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  • Practical and warm
  • Trauma aware
  • BACP accredited

About Lennox(Lenny)

Lennox (Lenny) Roberts-Flanders offers a calm, straightforward approach for people seeking support with stress, anxiety, low self-esteem and life changes. She presents herself as someone who listens without judgement and helps people find small, manageable steps forward. Lenny's style is practical and warm, aimed at making the first steps feel less overwhelming.

Lenny holds BACP accreditation, which she lists as her professional credential. She brings six years of therapy experience alongside three decades working in frontline mental health services. That background means she is familiar with long-term community care and supporting people through distressing life events.

In sessions she works from a trauma-aware perspective and focuses on the client's own story and strengths. She frames clients as the experts on their lives and uses that viewpoint to build goals together. Therapy sessions are framed as collaborative conversations rather than lectures.

Her approach draws on several practical methods, including client-centred ways of listening, cognitive behavioural ideas to look at thoughts and behaviours, and emotionally-focused techniques to help with relationship feelings. Narrative elements are used to make sense of personal stories and DBT tools can be brought in for emotion regulation when helpful.

Lenny also notes experience with a wide range of concerns beyond core mood and anxiety issues, such as trauma and abuse, caregiving stress, autism and attachment issues. She aims to support people who are ready to try small changes and to stick with goals that matter to them.

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Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Narrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

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How Lenny’s approaches translate to online work

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and building understanding. The therapist offers empathy and follows the person's lead to uncover what matters most, which helps when someone needs space to tell their story and find direction.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings and actions connect. It uses simple, practical exercises to help change unhelpful thinking patterns and to try new coping steps, which can suit anxiety, low mood and stress.

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) provides clear tools for managing intense emotions and improving day-to-day routine. Skills work from DBT can be helpful for emotion regulation and building small habits that reduce overwhelm.

Finding the right approach is part of therapy. The therapist will work together with the client to decide which methods best match the person's goals and preferences. This is a collaborative process that can change as needs evolve.

Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week and to keep continuity when travel or work gets in the way. It can allow for shorter check-ins, flexible scheduling and fewer travel requirements. The original profile does not list specific session formats, so confirm the available options before booking to make sure they suit your routine and technology needs.

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Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Lenny help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, depression and coping with life changes, among other concerns such as trauma, caregiving stress and autism-related issues.

What is her way of working in therapy?

Her style is collaborative and client-centred, focusing on the person's story and strengths while using practical tools to manage thoughts and emotions.

How much experience does she have?

Lenny has six years of therapy experience and around 30 years working in frontline mental health services.

Which professional credential does she hold?

She lists BACP as her credential and practices in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered in English and she is not accepting international clients at this time.

What session formats are available?

The original profile does not specify session formats, so please confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to book?

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