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Dr. Andrew Mendonsa

Therapist

Dr. Andrew Mendonsa

CO Psychologist PSY.0005062, CA Psychologist PSY23208

California · 22+ years of experience

Practical, affirming therapy for adult challenges

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  • Results oriented
  • LGBTQIA+ affirming
  • Practical skills

About Andrew

Dr. Andrew Mendonsa works with adults who are feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward. He helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, grief, and questions around sexual expression and identity. He is also available to support those coping with addiction, sleep problems, career strain, and compassion fatigue.

He uses straightforward, practical methods in sessions. Clients can expect a mix of talking, skill-building, and goal-setting tailored to their situation. He draws on therapies such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Attachment-Based approaches to help people notice what matters and take steps toward it.

Andrew brings 22 years of experience in many settings, including community mental health, addiction services, criminal justice, and work with high-achieving professionals. That range informs how he helps people manage shame, workplace pressure, and complicated life transitions without judgment.

He frames therapy as collaborative and time-focused. People who prefer a results-oriented approach and clear next steps tend to do well with him. He also describes himself as LGBTQIA+ affirming and open to conversations about kink, alternative sexual cultures, and nontraditional relationships.

Andrew is licensed in Colorado and California as a psychologist - CO Psychologist PSY.0005062 and CA Psychologist PSY23208 - and practices from California. Sessions are conducted in English, and he accepts international clients.

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Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefSleeping disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

22+ years

Credentials

California, Arizona, Arkansas, Colorado, Hawaii, Michigan, Nevada, New Mexico, Utah, Virginia

Languages

English

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How therapy approaches translate to online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on helping people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without letting them dictate actions. It supports people who want clearer values and more consistent behavior, useful for anxiety, depression, and life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions and teaches practical skills to change unhelpful patterns. It can help with anxiety, sleep problems, and mood. Attachment-Based Therapy pays attention to how early relationships shape current connection patterns and can help with intimacy and relationship challenges.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t worked in the past. Together they will try strategies and adjust the approach based on what feels most helpful.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current online options before booking. Many people find remote sessions easier to fit into workdays, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Online work can still include skill practice, exposure exercises, values-based planning, and discussion of relationship patterns just like in-office care, while matching the session style to each person's schedule and needs.

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Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Andrew commonly address?

He supports adults with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, addiction concerns, grief, sleep problems, and work-related strain among other issues.

What is his general therapy style?

Sessions are collaborative and goal-focused, combining talk therapy with skill practice and concrete steps to address problems.

What experience does he bring to sessions?

He has 22 years of clinical work across community mental health, addiction services, criminal justice, and with high-achieving professionals.

Where is he licensed and based?

He is licensed as a psychologist in Colorado (CO Psychologist PSY.0005062) and California (CA Psychologist PSY23208) and practices from California.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the U.S. work with him?

He does accept international clients; check local regulations to confirm cross-border care is appropriate for your situation.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work with him?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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