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Harold "Lanny" Monson

Therapist

Harold "Lanny" Monson

LMFT

Utah · 25+ years of experience

Experienced therapist focused on personal empowerment

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  • 25 years experience
  • LMFT credential
  • Works with trauma

About Harold

Harold "Lanny" Monson is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 25 years of experience. He focuses on helping people who feel powerless, supporting them to regain a sense of control and hope. He is based in Utah and speaks English.

Lanny listens first, then helps people name what matters to them. He offers straightforward conversation and practical steps. He often works with people facing trauma, substance challenges, mood changes, and relationship stress.

His approach blends client-centered listening with practical strategies from cognitive behavioral therapy. He also uses elements of mindfulness and motivation-focused conversation to help people change behaviors and manage emotions.

He has long experience working with justice-involved populations, survivors of sexual assault, and people affected by domestic violence and substance use. He has also worked in military family advocacy and in outreach to underserved cultural groups.

Lanny developed a way of thinking he calls "Displaced Power" to help people move toward what he calls "the power within." In sessions he helps clients identify small, achievable steps to feel more effective in daily life.

He trained at Brigham Young University and Utah State University and completed a post-master's certificate in marriage and family therapy. He maintains his LMFT credential and has worked as a clinical supervisor and volunteer therapist over many years.

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Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteem

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

25+ years

Credentials

Utah, Washington

Languages

English

Step 3

How therapeutic approaches work online

Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and building trust. The therapist follows the client's lead and helps people clarify their goals and values, which can be useful for relationship and life-change concerns.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at patterns of thinking and behavior. It uses practical exercises and homework to reduce anxiety, manage mood, and change unhelpful habits.

Mindfulness therapy teaches simple practices to notice thoughts and feelings without getting overwhelmed. It can help with stress, emotional regulation, and staying present during difficult moments.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn't helped before, and then suggest ways to proceed. This is a collaborative process where plans can change as progress is made.

Confirm the session formats available before booking since specific formats are not listed here. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Many people find that remote sessions let them bring issues from everyday life into the conversation more easily, while still working with a licensed professional to apply practical tools and new habits.

Step 4

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does this therapist address?

Common concerns include relationships, parenting, anger, anxiety, depression, addictions, trauma, grief, and issues related to self-esteem and stress.

How would you describe the therapy style?

He uses a client-centered style that focuses on listening and collaboration, combined with techniques from cognitive behavioral therapy and mindfulness to help change thought and behavior patterns.

What is his professional background?

He has 25 years of clinical experience, including work with survivors of sexual assault, people with substance use issues, and outreach to underserved communities.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He holds the LMFT credential and practices from Utah.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with him?

International clients are accepted, so people outside the United States can inquire about working together.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What do I do to begin therapy?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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