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Brenda Lauer

Therapist

Brenda Lauer

LPC

Missouri · 15+ years of experience

Compassionate counselor focused on practical change

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Step 1

  • Warm empathic approach
  • Practical strategies
  • Flexible methods

About Brenda

Brenda Lauer is a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 15 years of experience in private practice. She works part time and typically sees people in the afternoons on Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday in Eastern Standard Time. Brenda has worked with a wide range of concerns including PTSD, anxiety, and depression, and she also uses hypnosis coaching as part of her work.

Brenda brings a warm, gentle style to sessions. She starts by trying to understand how each person sees their world. From there she helps broaden perspectives and find practical steps forward. Respect, compassion, and empathy guide her interactions.

Her approach is flexible rather than one-size-fits-all. Brenda draws on cognitive behavioral techniques, acceptance-based ideas, client-centered practices, emotionally focused methods, and solution-focused strategies to match what a person needs. She will learn about a person first and then shape the work together.

Brenda has experience with a range of concerns beyond mood and stress, including grief, trauma and abuse, caregiver stress, chronic illness and disability, attachment issues, autism and Asperger syndrome, adoption and foster care matters, and communication problems. She has also worked with people from military and first responder backgrounds.

People who prefer a calm, empathic clinician and clear, practical steps may find her style helpful. She encourages collaboration and aims to make therapy feel manageable alongside everyday life. To begin, prospective clients use the site process to match and schedule sessions.

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Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Solution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Credentials

Missouri

Languages

English

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How her approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice thoughts without getting stuck in them and choose actions that match their values; it is often used for anxiety, stress, and mood concerns. Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening, empathy, and helping people find their own answers through a supportive relationship. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the link between thoughts, feelings, and actions to teach practical skills for managing anxiety, depression, and related problems.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful, then adapt methods together. That collaborative decision helps shape a plan that fits the person's needs rather than imposing a single method.

Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, for example by reducing travel time and allowing sessions during an afternoon slot. Video or phone sessions can also help when bandwidth or camera use is a concern, and shorter check-ins are an option when a full hour is difficult. The biography does not list specific session formats here, so confirm available formats before booking. Many people find that remote sessions let them use therapy alongside work, caregiving, and other daily demands without creating extra travel time.

Step 4

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, anger, and depression, along with related concerns like caregiver stress, chronic illness and disability, attachment issues, and adoption and foster care matters.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is warm and gentle, aiming to see the world from the client's perspective and then expand it. She focuses on respect, empathy, and practical steps forward.

What is her clinical background?

She has 15 years of experience as a therapist in private practice and has worked with a broad range of clients and diagnoses such as PTSD, anxiety, and depression.

What credentials and region apply to her practice?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, and practices from Missouri.

Can sessions be conducted in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English, and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How does cost and scheduling work?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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