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Deirdre Gaspari

Therapist

Deirdre Gaspari

LCSW

New York · 27+ years of experience

Practical support for stress and life changes

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Step 1

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Grief and loss
  • Self-esteem work

About Deirdre

Deirdre Gaspari is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) based in New York who helps people manage stress, anxiety, depression, and major life changes. She offers straightforward support for grief, low self-esteem, panic symptoms, and social anxiety. Her work also includes addressing caregiver stress, chronic illness and disability concerns, and issues related to intellectual disability.

Clients can expect practical, calm sessions that focus on clear steps and small changes. Deirdre uses tools from cognitive behavioral therapy to address unhelpful thought patterns. She blends mindfulness practices to reduce reactivity and motivational interviewing to build momentum toward goals.

With 27 years of experience, she draws on a long clinical background to tailor plans to each person. Sessions emphasize building self-compassion and realistic coping skills. She often helps people break big problems into manageable actions and practice them between meetings.

Deirdre pays attention to the day-to-day barriers people face. She supports those dealing with chronic pain, caregiver burden, body image struggles, and feelings of isolation. Her style is collaborative and pragmatic - she listens, offers options, and checks what feels useful.

If someone wants to stop smoking or vaping, improve mood, or navigate a difficult life transition, she works toward clear steps and measurable short-term goals. For readers in New York seeking help, the first step is to use the site’s Start Therapy flow to match and schedule a session.

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Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Body imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityDomestic violenceGuilt and shameImpulsivityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksSelf-loveSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

27+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

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How her approaches translate to online work

Deirdre uses cognitive behavioral techniques to help people notice patterns of thinking and try new behaviors. CBT is often used for anxiety, depression, panic, and social fears because it gives clear skills to practice between sessions. Mindfulness therapy helps slow down automatic reactions and build tolerance for uncomfortable feelings, which can be useful for stress, chronic pain, and caregiver fatigue.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. She will talk with each person about goals and preferences and then recommend techniques to try. That collaborative process makes it easier to adjust methods when something is not helpful.

The practical benefits of online therapy depend on the session options offered, so confirm the current formats before booking. In general, remote sessions can make it simpler to fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins on difficult days. Licensed professionals can use these sessions to teach CBT exercises, guide mindfulness practices, and support motivation between meetings, all in ways designed to fit into everyday routines.

Step 4

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, low self-esteem, panic attacks, social anxiety, and coping with life changes. Additional focuses include caregiver stress, chronic illness and disability, body image, and intellectual disability.

What is her general therapy style?

Her sessions are practical and collaborative. She focuses on small, doable steps, self-compassion, and building coping skills that fit into daily life.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She brings 27 years of experience in clinical social work to her practice. That background influences how she tailors plans and problem-solving strategies for each person.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is a licensed clinical social worker, LCSW, practicing in New York. The profile lists New York as the therapist's location.

Which languages are offered for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients supported?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are fees and cancellations handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing the short matching questionnaire. After that, schedule a session according to the therapist's availability.

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