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Brandi Loudermilk

Therapist

Brandi Loudermilk

LCMFT

Kansas · 10+ years of experience

Collaborative, practical therapy for relationships and sexuality

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Step 1

  • Evidence-based care
  • Relationship and intimacy
  • LGBT-affirming support

About Brandi

Brandi Loudermilk, LCMFT, uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help people move toward meaningful change. She centers sessions on clear goals and practical skills. Her style is direct and collaborative to make sessions feel useful from the start.

She brings ten years of clinical experience addressing depression, anxiety, stress, and relationship and intimacy concerns. Brandi has worked with people who identify as LGBT and with those exploring non-traditional relationship structures. She also has experience with sexual difficulties and various presentations of mental health needs.

Her background includes clinical marriage and family therapy practice in Kansas, where she holds the LCMFT credential. Brandi emphasizes learning alongside each person she sees and helping them build stronger communication and coping skills for day-to-day life.

In sessions she will help identify practical steps to reduce distress, improve intimacy, and manage relationship conflicts. She aims to make therapy a space for steady progress rather than rapid fixes. Brandi encourages realistic goals and small changes that add up over time.

People who choose to work with her can expect a collaborative process that balances emotional understanding with skill-building. She invites clients to share their priorities so therapy can be tailored to their needs and pace.

Step 2

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesDepression

Additional focus areas

Antisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

10+ years

Credentials

Kansas

Languages

English

Step 3

Evidence-based methods and how they fit online

Brandi uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on improving relationships and managing mood. One common approach is skill-based work that teaches communication, boundary setting, and tools to reduce anxiety and depressive symptoms. These practical skills are shown in sessions and practiced between meetings to create steady progress.

She also incorporates relationally focused methods that look at patterns between partners and within family dynamics. This helps identify repeating interaction styles and offers concrete alternatives people can try. For sexual and intimacy concerns, the work often combines education, paced exposure, and focused conversations about consent and negotiation to improve comfort and connection.

Finding the right mix of techniques is part of the process. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which approaches match their goals and preferences, and adjust plans as progress is made.

Confirm current session options before booking, as formats are not specified here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also let people use quieter surroundings or avoid being on camera if that helps them engage. Discuss format preferences when scheduling so sessions align with daily life and therapeutic goals.

Step 4

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

Brandi sees people for stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, and concerns related to sexual expression and alternative relationship structures.

How does she approach therapy?

She uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques and focuses on practical skills, clear goals, and collaborative planning to help people make steady progress.

What is her professional background?

She has ten years of clinical experience working with a range of presenting issues, including sexual concerns, non-traditional relationships, and serious mental health needs.

What credentials and location apply?

She holds the LCMFT credential in the State of Kansas and practices there.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work together with her?

International clients are not currently accepted; sessions are offered to those within her permitted practice area.

How are fees and payments handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

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